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xtwoofheartsx:

dearestandqueerest:

qbutch:

Oh Lordy this is so pleasing

they are servin you FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACE
face face face face face face face
making them EAT it.
and i love how it’s from “poorlydressed.com”
like bitch what do YOU know?

I wouldn’t say they’re poorly dressed at all.. their outfits are perfectly coordinated..What they ARE, is FIERCE!

xtwoofheartsx:

dearestandqueerest:

qbutch:

Oh Lordy this is so pleasing

they are servin you FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACE

face face face face face face face

making them EAT it.

and i love how it’s from “poorlydressed.com”

like bitch what do YOU know?

I wouldn’t say they’re poorly dressed at all.. their outfits are perfectly coordinated..
What they ARE, is FIERCE!

In Maryland, Male Student Suspended for Wearing a Skirt


salizaar:

lovewallace:

transradical:

accio-mermaid:

Warren Evans, an openly bisexual student at Calvert High School, was suspended for wearing a skirt, [allegedly] violating the school’s dress code.

Evans says the school is discriminating against him and does not believe he violated any dress code.

“I don’t think so. Why not? It didn’t say anywhere in the code of conduct or dress code that says boys can’t dress like girls,” Evans commented.

The school district’s dress code policy states schools can regulate dress or even hair lengths.

Students at the school told News4’s Shomari Stone that female students wear skirts of the same length that Evans wore, but they were not suspended.

School officials will not comment on the suspension. They did say the dress code applies to all students, regardless of gender.

Public schools being used for taxpayer-sponsored gender policing. Just warms your heart, don’t it?

FUCK THEM WARREN YOU LOOK GREAT

One rad dude.

Dress code or moral discomfort of teaching staff?
“Uhhhhhh boys like, don’t dress like that.. so.. he shouldn’t be allowed to dress like that!” Why? because it makes you fucking uncomfortable?
*rolls eyes*

I think he looks fabulous. He pulls off that outfit spectacularly.

xtwoofheartsx:

Wearing my hair in a samurai ponytail a lot lately.

xtwoofheartsx:

Wearing my hair in a samurai ponytail a lot lately.

It's that time of year again! INTERNATIONAL MEN CAN WEAR DRESSES TOO DAY!


sunflower-boy:

genderqueer:

ftmark:

We are proud to be men, and we are proud to wear dresses.
We believe we are men, no matter what we wear (or don’t wear)
We stand with women, equal in all attire

Have fun! Wear a Dress! Have a Dress Party, or a Dress Outing, or just stand around and feel the wind between your legs!
Skirts also acceptable.
Facebook RSVP
reblog, spread the word, and partake!
Feel free to post the photo/poster around your town

Tomorrow!

Please, everyone do this! My boyfriend (probably) and I are doing it.

I did this last year, and may do it again this year..


shit-thatblows:

thecheekylibertarian:

uniteordie:

To everyone so outraged about Trayvon Martin, please meet Abdul al-Awlaki. Notice his birth certificate, he’s an American, born in Colorado. 

Abdul was a 16 year old American citizen that was murdered on orders of our very own President. His crime? That his father was a suspected Al Qaida member. 

Unlike the Trayvon Martin situation there is no grey area here. This teenager was specifically targeted and killed because of his religious and ethnic background and who his family was. 

He committed no crime, he was guilty of nothing yet he was murdered by a drone strike. 

WHERE THE FUCK WERE YOU PEOPLE WHEN THIS TEENAGER WAS MURDERED? 

WHERE WERE YOU PEOPLE WHEN THE SAME PRESIDENT WHO SCORED POLITICAL POINTS COMMENTING ON ONE TEENAGERS DEATH ORDERED THE DEATH OF ANOTHER AMERICAN TEEN? 

You look foolish. You look uniformed, you look ignorant because you are. In one situation we have what appears to be an extremely unfortunate, tragic mistake and we have Congressmen on the house floor wearing hoodies and thousands protesting and screaming for justice.

On the other hand you have a child who was intentionally targeted and assassinated on the orders of the President yet you turn a blind eye. This country makes my stomach turn. 

THANK YOU. What’s really disgusting is most of the MSM stories only cover his father’s assassination, Completely ignoring his murder a few days later, which also happened to kill several of his friends, while they ate lunch (not that anyone cares, I guess).

Look at him. He was just a goofy adolescent boy. And that’s why it is virtually impossible to find a damn picture of him in the main stream media. Obama didn’t kill a terrorist; he killed a CHILD.

spreading awareness of this murder. 

ftmark:

pixyled:

lovelustandlonging:

privilegedenyingfeministcunt:

iamthedeadpool:

nahchillhomebro:

batoudopant:

thatfuckingtableflipper:

NVKLHBOIF that poor guy XDDD

I couldn’t help but chuckle at this.


If the roles were reversed nobody would be laughing.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Apparently, this isn’t her first time doing something like this, either. 
And does anyone else find it interesting that it says that she “demanded too much sex”? If it had been a male nympho and a female victim, anyone else think it would have been worded differently?
Here’s an example from the same site. Oh, the hypocrisy.
What’s even more disgusting is the comments. “He’s a pansy.” “Oh, I wish this could happen to me.” “Where’s her contact information?” “MAN UP!”
If a woman’s raped, it’s an atrocity. If a man’s raped, it’s a punchline - and it’s not even worth labeling “rape,” even though it is. 

This. Right fucking here.

Another example of rape culture at work. I hop this poor guy is okay and gets any help he needs

fucking hell, that poor guy, I hope he’s able to get some help.
and I really hope that woman is arrested.

ftmark:

pixyled:

lovelustandlonging:

privilegedenyingfeministcunt:

iamthedeadpool:

nahchillhomebro:

batoudopant:

thatfuckingtableflipper:

NVKLHBOIF that poor guy XDDD

I couldn’t help but chuckle at this.

If the roles were reversed nobody would be laughing.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Apparently, this isn’t her first time doing something like this, either. 

And does anyone else find it interesting that it says that she “demanded too much sex”? If it had been a male nympho and a female victim, anyone else think it would have been worded differently?

Here’s an example from the same site. Oh, the hypocrisy.

What’s even more disgusting is the comments. “He’s a pansy.” “Oh, I wish this could happen to me.” “Where’s her contact information?” “MAN UP!”

If a woman’s raped, it’s an atrocity. If a man’s raped, it’s a punchline - and it’s not even worth labeling “rape,” even though it is. 

This. Right fucking here.

Another example of rape culture at work. I hop this poor guy is okay and gets any help he needs

fucking hell, that poor guy, I hope he’s able to get some help.

and I really hope that woman is arrested.

Erections

fuckyeahftms:

Hey guys I was just wondering if you can get an erection when youve been on T for a while and have an enlarged clitoris??

Yup. Things work almost exactly the same as the penis of someone born “physically male”, just on a smaller scale (except the urethra isn’t wired through there (unless we have surgery), and we can’t ejaculate out of it).
Actually, the clitoris is made of the same stuff a penis is made out of. Taking testosterone just enlarges it, causing it to look a lot more penis like, essentially developing into a “micro penis”.
And yes it also can get hard when the person is aroused. Of course it won’t show through the trousers though.. because micropenises are usually too small to be visible through clothing when erect! Erect micropenises are also usually too small to penetrate. I’ve heard of some transmen who are able to, but it seems to be pretty rare.
Also, just so you know, many trans men / transmasculine individuals prefer to call it their cock, dick, or penis.. a lot of us shy away from terms like “clit” or “clitoris” in reference to our junk.
I call mine my lil penis. =)

TW: Cissexism and misogyny. That awkward moment when a gay man’s sexual orientation seems to be defined simply by an aversion to a body part that some men actually have

a-great—perhaps:

I’m wondering who told Red that vaginas are capable of creating smells that permeate three separate rooms, and that penises or assholes are not. Maybe he’s confusing vaginas with like…dead bodies or something? Idk idk.

I can understand not being attracted to certain body parts, but people? This whole “OMG EW VAGINAS LOLOL” bullshit really needs to go. 

I once had a gay acquaintance say “I was born by C-section, because I didn’t even want to touch a vagina in order to be born!” I don’t know if he really thought that, or if he believed it was what he was “supposed” to say, as a gay man, but either way, it says a hell of a lot about the casual disrespect for women and female-assigned people that exists in the gay male community. And I’m sick of it. 

Oh, the stupid..
So many people have it. And vaginaphobia. It’s bullshit.

Judge Rotenberg Center and its policies.

xtwoofheartsx:

fuckyeahadhdaardvark:

I feel the need to share with you all the thoughts I have on this whole business with the special needs facility that uses electric shock as a method of treatment. After my father hounded me on how the article was probably I fake I for good measure checked the school’s website. Their policies were right there, available for reading, they do indeed use electric shock as a method of treatment, but even more so the foundation of this school is completely backwards. 

Screenshots of their policies and my commentary copy+pasted from my personal blog under the read more. I apologize in advance for the excessive cussing.

Read More

I urge my followers to please read this whole thing, and sign the petition.
I signed myself, and this is what I said:

I’m signing this because this is just plain wrong. This needs to stop, NOW. I shouldn’t even need to say this, but people with autism and other disabilities don’t need to be “corrected”. They don’t do these things that you’re shocking them for ON PURPOSE. They don’t need punishment, they need compassion and understanding. They need YOU to adapt to them, not the other way around.”

And please don’t watch the video on the petition page if seeing a child with autism being held down and shocked will upset you or trigger you.
I didn’t know how upsetting the video would be.. and I made the mistake of watching it with the little one present. He’s now inconsolable, and I’m not doing much better myself.

lulz-time:

 
“I’m not ashamed to dress ‘like a woman’ because I don’t think it’s shameful to be a woman.” -Iggy Pop
Iggy pop is such a bad ass. There’s an interview I watched where his manager talked about having to bail him out of jail. The manager shows up and Iggy is drunk, disorderly, and wearing a dress. His manager asked “Ig, why are you wearing a womans dress?” and Iggy replied “I beg to differ, this is a mans dress.”
^ It’s like Eddie Izzard says - ‘They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.’

lulz-time:

 

“I’m not ashamed to dress ‘like a woman’ because I don’t think it’s shameful to be a woman.” -Iggy Pop

Iggy pop is such a bad ass. There’s an interview I watched where his manager talked about having to bail him out of jail. The manager shows up and Iggy is drunk, disorderly, and wearing a dress. His manager asked “Ig, why are you wearing a womans dress?” and Iggy replied “I beg to differ, this is a mans dress.”

^ It’s like Eddie Izzard says - ‘They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.’


(Source: m0su)

#IfTransTalkedLikeCis


  • @nataliereed84:
    Oh, you're cis? Nice to meet you! So, what's your vagina like?
  • @nataliereed84:
    Wow! You look great! I never would have gussed you were cis!
  • @Mowgli3:
    "But how am I supposed to learn what cis bodies are like if I can't ask you everything about yours?"
  • @AndyTehNerd:
    But how can you be sure that's your gender? What if that's just what you were raised to believe?
  • @nataliereed84:
    But are you SURE you want to remain male? How do you know for sure this is right for you?
  • @AndersStarmark:
    Of course I support you. But I just want you tone it down. You're scaring people, and scared people are dangerous.
  • @nataliereed84:
    But "cis" people might regret not transitioning! We need strict criteria for diagnosing cisgenderism to prevent that.
  • @AndersStarmark:
    I don't believe Cises get raped. Who'd fuck one of them?
  • @LanaLangton:
    Yeah you can come clubbing with us but only if you promise to act like a girl.
  • @AndersStarmark:
    This magic ring will keep your gender the way it is.
  • @nataliereed84:
    People with mental health disorders might think they're cis when they're really not. We can't trust their choices.
  • @LanaLangton:
    You must declare your cisism immediately when you meet me or any of my friends else you are deceiving us.
  • @nataliereed84:
    It's not my fault I'm not attracted to cis ppl. I just find your bodies icky. It's just my sexual orientation!
  • @nataliereed84:
    No, but what's your REAL name? You know, the one you actually chose.
  • @nataliereed84:
    Wait, so you think you're a womon-born-womon? Isn't that just equating sex with gender and buying into the patriarchy?
  • @LanaLangton:
    sorry if you find what we say offensive it's just we're not used to actually talking to cis people & its only 'banter'
  • @nataliereed84:
    Look son, I understand you identify as your birth sex, but why can't you just transition to being a butch lesbian?
  • @AndersStarmark:
    No, I'm sorry, you may not use the ungendered restroom. A gendered one? No, never heard of them. Wouldn't work anyway.
  • @nataliereed84:
    Isn't it a bit selfish to go around claiming you're really your birth sex and expect us all to just go along with it?
  • @nataliereed84:
    You may think you're a woman because you're XX, but I think of you as male, and you need to respect my beliefs.
  • @nataliereed84:
    But if we let cis men use the men's room, what's to stop one of them from raping your children!?!?
  • @kinetictheorist:
    I'm glad your granddad died before finding out your cis
  • @PeregrineTwist:
    so you mean your cock is ATTACHED!? How do you sterilise and wash it properly?
  • @maeveregan:
    Oh, your new partner is cis? So do you actually have sex or what?
  • @nataliereed84:
    Son, you say that you're a boy, but I think you're a bit too young to be making that decision.
  • @nataliereed84:
    Honey, I know you think you want to remain male, but are you sure this isn't just a mid-life crisis?
  • @AndersStarmark:
    I'm a psychologist. I can help you cope with your reluctance to transition. Just relax. Let me help.
  • @AndersStarmark:
    You know, for a cis you're pretty attractive. I'd even call you fuckable.
  • @MaeveCaitKelly:
    Wow! You're such a convincing cis person, I just thought you were normal! Well done.
  • @sashapixlee:
    Dude, she looks like she might be cis. Be careful, bro
  • @sasugakirin:
    Just because "grue" is used to hurt you cis people all the time doesn't mean I can't reclaim it.
  • @BecciCath:
    No, Cis Identity Disorder shouldn't be removed from the DSM, I mean, being cis is a lifestyle choice, so u must b mad
  • @Dru_Marland:
    You're cis? -honestly, I'd never have known, you look so good
  • @AndersStarmark:
    If you cis people didn't scare people of we'd have opposite sex marriage a long time ago!
  • @Dru_Marland:
    "Are they real?" (gropes stranger's breasts)
  • @AndersStarmark:
    I think you're taking it a little hard when someone truegenders you. It's just a label, it's nothing serious.
  • @LadyJaya:
    You mean your breasts started growing when you were 12? Can I feel them? They seem so real!

Transgender 101: 15 Things to Know


artoftransliness:

From the Huffington Post. This is a very simple, easy-to-follow article that might be helpful to pass on to friends and family members who need some help understanding or who you’re just now coming out to. 

Thinking of stop T

fuckyeahftms:

Does anyone know how much time takes to came back the menses period after stop T? I know it takes some mounths but…how many?

It took about 6 months for mine to return, but it is different for everyone.
Please make sure you are going off T for the right reasons. Stopping testosterone can cause serious problems. At least it did for me.
Emotional instability, severe depression, suicidal thoughts, body re-feminization (my thighs, butt, and hips got bigger again.. shoulders got smaller and less broad, face became more feminine, and even my mannerisms changed), and a few other things.

Whether or not you continue taking T is ultimately your decision, and not being on it doesn’t make you any less trans*, but messing around with your hormones can cause some serious problems, so just make sure going off T is right for you.


ftmark:

freececemcdonald:

Trans people of color on a popular, prime time TV show? AND it actually shows how the gays aren’t any more down with us then anyone else? Wow world what’s next, will they actually FREE CECE?!

oh my goodness I might have to start watching glee

Oh my god.. an accurate portrayal of how many gay people treat transfolk..
I may also have to start watching the show again. Which I stopped watching when they censored the word “transsexual” from the Rocky Horror song.

(Source: mygayboyfriend)

About Me

Dominic Scaia

I'm Dominic. I'm 29 years old and I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. I'm an FTM (female-to-male transsexual), and for all intents and purposes, I'm done my transition. I'm an activist, educator, and advocate (on trans issues).


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